Confessions - Relationship Problems

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"Gosh, our intimate life is a disaster. I am so sad every time we try to so something. The lack of motivation, the lack of even trying is making me hate spending time with this person. Don't get me wrong, I love him so much, but from the side of our intimate life I just can't tolerate it and do nothing. I wanna be touched, I wanna be desired but he is so unmotivated. I am constantly trying to teach him something but it's always "my fingers hurt""my hand hurts, It's uncomfortable" It's been a fucking year and I still can't feel fulfilled with our sex life. It's so exhausting. I just don't know what to do anymore. Talking doesn't seem to help. And I start crying every time I am thinking about it. I just want him to make me feel good, as much as I try to please him every time he wants."

"I'm sorry for everything I've made you deal with for the last four years. I'm sorry for wasting your time."

"I don’t know if we should go on."

"I'm really frustrated with your lack of motivation, it's not me. I have bent over backwards to keep us together but it's like you never wanted to try because tbh, your hung up on someone you can't have. And you're settling by choosing me. That's why you can't keep it up for me, because I'm unwanted by pretty much everyone..."

"I loved you like crazy and wished we would have worked together better. The thought of losing you tears me apart but it's probably the only thing to do"

"Dont be so needy and shut up sometimes"

"Don’t tell me you didn’t text me back because you just didn’t want to have social interaction this weekend, only to find out you texted your fucking ex nudes."

"I am stuck dating a child. Shes 18 and her parents start to lose their shit because we have sex. Can I not have a fucking normal ass relationship where there isn't any boundries?"

"You are so incredibly stupid that it is making me feel stupid. You can't even understand half of the words I say to you. Most of the shit that comes out of your mouth sounds like mumbling jargon because you refuse to learn how to speak like a normal person. Our communication sucks. You are uneducated, sexist, racist, and selfish. You think you and your family are the best thing in the world and that everyone else is garbage compared to all of you. You lie about everything big or small when you know you are wrong, you tell me you aren't serious but it's obvious you have no control over yourself. I could say something as simple as "the sky is blue" and you'd argue the sky is Burgundy until the day you die. Only because you are a pathological liar and have to be right. You hide your messages to your ex and cover it up and when I expose you, you just say you are trying to help cause she is in a bad spot mentally? She is a stripper who cheated on you and left you! When I say that I care for everyone even my enemies and you reply with "even your ex who beat you?" and I say yes so you decide to go off and fight with me and belittle me?! I hate you. I hate what you've made me. I'm going to ruin your life. You have no idea what is coming. You think it will be obvious but over the years everything will start going to shit and you'll realize the mistakes you've made. I believe in karma but I don't wait for it to happen. I make it happen. "

"Do you even love me?"

"You make me want to kill myself. The constant invisibility, the disregard of feelings, the void in intimacy. You treat me like a third world citizen. You shit on my emotions and thoughts. Always berated for imaginary faults. Nothing I ever do is good enough for you. I'm so tired of crying myself to sleep. I am a nonentity in your eyes. Fuck you, for squandering my love, you self serving, self righteous, son-of-a-bitch. "

"Just tell me how you feel and stop bottling up your feelings, I can't handle this anymore. It's really not that hard to tell me once in a while that you love me or how you feel about this or that or whatever. Just talk to me. I'm here for you, but somehow you keep shutting me out. "

"i love you, and i wanted to spend my life with you. but if you were not ready to settle down, and if you want to travel and get drunk with a bunch of strangers. why did you go into a relationship with me even though you knew i wanted to be with you, why do you say you want to be with me too. but show the opposite?"

"You promised me you wouldn't anymore, but yet it still happens, and now I'm on a website taking a should we breakup quiz. I feel alone in this relationship and you don't even care."

"you broke me jesse, you fucked me up inside, all i feel is pain and heartbreak why? cuz you fancy my best friend thats why, yous a hoe and i wish i never met you, all you do is fuck with my head bro i hate it its bullshit, so now im through with it! "

"Less and less sex every month. She spends her days watching reruns on tv and YouTube videos. She lacks sensuality. I love her but I want more. "

"I don't know what to do. You're putting me in a position where I kind of want to end it, but fear what will happen to you if I do. I care, but you don't. I don't know if you're what's best for me."

"I thought you would be different from the last relationship but you seem to have similar and new issues that finally pushed me away"

"I never imagined that our relationship would end up being so fragile and unpredictable"

"I wish that you were ready too"

"everything just isnt the same"

"You are such a *******"

"Hardly listens and he become really annoying when he speaks to me in a horrible way even when I am going through rough times http he knows about"

"You're a workaholic and lash out at me when you're angry"

"I've tried to lay my bagage aside and trust you, but you refuse to make it easy. I try to discuss with you why the shit you do makes me suspicious, but you act like I'm an asshole for being upset. If you truely do want this to work then things better start changing, because I am tired of feeling this way."

"I just wish she never over reacts over stupid things because that's what brings us down road. I love her so Damn much that I will never give up on her. Me and her been through this a few times and now it feels like she's not the same girl as we were before"

"We're so close, and yet I feel like we're a million miles apart"

"I wish we could go back to the days where we crushed on each other all of the time and just seemed so free together. Now it's like I'm being strangled into submission. I'm losing friends, I never go out to parties, even when I ask you to come with me, and I'm always so isolated when you aren't around. You're jealous when I talk to my friends if you are around, and you seem to always be jealous, regardless. I want to go back to how we use to be. I miss who we were."

"Oh my god I'm trying so hard to soldier on but every time, every time I decide to give it another chance you do something to make me feel that it's not worth it, that this is a shitty relationship to be in. You're just ... not nice! I thought you were, but you're not, we're so different, you hurt me and you're so fucking fragile, maybe that's just my perspective and I'm hurting you too but if that's the case it's just as good a reason for us to end this. I don't want it to become more and more bitter and angry and difficult until our friendship can't recover when it does end."

"I really like you. In fact, I think I may even love you. And that's what scares me. Loving someone means you risk getting hurt, and I've been hurt way too many times to let it happen again. I can't get closer to you because all that will happen is you'll leave for college while I remain in high school, and you'll lose interest in me."

"I love you and wish it could work but u seem lazy and have no goals... I'm not getting much out the relationship but sex.. I love that u adore me but I need more mental stimulation and goals... U have none and would rather smoke weed and cigarettes and live a different kind of life than I do... U r a good person but I'm now it will never make me feel complete...if u could get urself together and communicate instead of getting high we would do better"

"I love you, I really do but I don't know if I'm in love with you and I don't know if I see the rest of my life with you. Also I'm unsure if I'm still attracted to women at all. Also you are so clingy, you talk to me from the second you wake up to the second you go to sleep, so I think it's best if we break up but I definitely still want us to be friends because I care about you a lot "

"i dont think that i can go on if all we do is fight, i want to be loved and love someone"

"I love you so much.. but I feel that we're drifting apart. I don't want to be in another relationship that I just stay in for the sake of staying in one. I met you after being in a longterm relationship, and I was wary about being with you because I didn't want anything serious.. but we fell in love and I loved many things about our relationship. But we're very different people, we fight often, we misunderstand each other often, we have poor communication. I see us being together in the future.. yet I don't feel good about us being together now. Isn't that weird?"

"I love you and wish it could work out... But your lack of reassurance and confidence in yourself has broke us apart. I can support you with all my heart and soul, but if you're never willing to help yourself then this is the end. I love you and I hope one day it will all work out for you... "

"I am really disappointed that you ignored me. I'm sorry but we just are on different pages in terms of relationships. By the way, I just don't like you anymore. Everything that is wrong with you are the things I hate. You are stupid, obsessive, and a spoiled brat. I want someone who doesn't yell at their mother for caring about them too much, who can retain the information that we discussed the previous day, and who doesn't tell me that she conforms to my slow pace and that she wants more."

"I gave you the shot you said you dreamed of, and you didn't appreciate it and I told you my issues my goals and how I felt about you and our future, explained to you what you were doing wrong, you said you'd try, and so I tried again, our morals are different, and you just barely skated by on the things that previously needed fixing, now there is an issue that shouldn't even be one and i see more of your character that negatively affects me, and I'm over feeling like I'm not living the life I deserve."

"At a point in our relations, I was extremely infatuated. I thought he was wonderful and so perfect. But things happened and things changed. We found out that we are, in fact, so completely different. I can't take arguing so much anymore. I'm just not happy any more."

"You don't try to understand me. you just want to be able to say Im all yours you just want to own me I dont like myself with you anymore. I can't even do anything for school anymore we're always arguing and all I want to do is sleep. Why can't you just be happy when I can talk to you why can't you be content with what I give you. WHy am i never enough. You think Im cheating you think I would if Im not you think the worst possible thing, I cant even post anything on the internet without you wanting to know what the hell it means, like I need to clear it with you first? All I want is for you to talk to me and one wrong word gets let go not turned into a three hour argument on the phone over nothing"

"We'll work it out. It's a bump in the road. I love you with all of my heart and I will do what ever I can to make this work. I know you love me and my daughter. I know you won't leave. But you have before. And loosing you again is the second most scariest thing that could happen to me and I'm not ready to have my heart broken without your hand holding mine and telling me it's going to be ok. I can't even stand the thought of you being alone. Because I know that's not want you want. You're scared of commitment. It scares you but you're amazing and there is no reason to be scared. But I'm scared because you're scared. I'm giving you your space because I love you and I know you need it. I'll be here waiting for you forever. I swear it. "

"We never fight and I think that's the problem. I'm very straightforward while you're a sensitive person so I find myself holding back a lot of things that I want to say. When we don't see each other for weeks, we drift apart, and I start feeling doubts about our relationship. But if I break up with you, I know that I'm gonna miss you and begin to wonder about what could have been. You're just always so busy with work now and I don't want to be a distraction, but sometimes I still need reassurance that you still care about me and that we'll get through this rough patch. I still love you."

"I tried. Really. You hit me and I gave you a second chance. You have changed a bit but now we have other problems. It seems like you are no longer interested in me. We stopped doing things we used to do together. You now playing badminton, my favorite sport with someone else. You now have your hobbies, not ours. We went in opposite directions and I feel distance between us. I feel like you are not into me anymore. I tried everything and I can't fight for us anymore...I feel like you take me for granted again and it make me tired. I also fall in love with someone's not fall in love..but i find someone who has everything I ever wanted from you. He is kind and he respect me. I'm not cheating on you and I would never do like that to you. You are my love, but I find myself lost in are in USA and I am in Croatia. You are not around me for 10 days and I DON't miss you at all...and that is horrible..I Know.. You will be back soon. We spoke every day..shortly but we do. and all these days..You never told me that you care about me or that you love me or that i am missing you...why? I love you...I miss our good days..I love every day we had...but something has changed...:( so sorry to say that. I think that I was good girlfriend for seven long and beautiful years to you. You were really great boyfriend till this year. I don't know what happened to us..I can't stop crying..I am afraid to loosing you but I think we lost our battle..."

"I don't mean to be clingy, but I'd like a little more continuity and stability from you"

"You nit pick for arguments, have way different moral views than me, you stress me the fuck out man, wheres the fun?"

"Fuck you. You should of pay more attention to me"

"I think we need to break up Eli i really liked you but now that we are dating you a fucking weird as shit. "

"They were right it is true, your attention seek and I don't know whether I can put up with that anymore."

"I love you but I need something else. "

"I love you , but this isn't love, love isn't supposed to be like this , your not in pain cause your not in love , even though you promised you would never fall out of it, your such a liar, and I am too stupid to not dump your stupid ass"

"He promised forever and that he would never find anyone like me and that he would never leave or fall in love with anyone else and that he loved me and that I never had to worry that he would always be there and that I would never have to cry over anything he did , he promised but I cry everyday and he is always with his "friend" who is a girl and I see the way he looks at her and I see the way they laugh, I know he loves her I can see the way he looks at her I know he looked at me like that but , he hasn't looked at me like that since forever, I don't know where I went wrong, maybe I was just a mess he didn't want to clean up. either way its all my fault and I am sitting here not knowing if I should end it or wait for him to dump me cause I don't want to be the one who calls it quits"

"I never felt loved by you in the first place. I put all the effort into this relationship and you did nothing. I love you. But I don't believe you when you say it. You're wonderful and I wish I could stay with you but you're never here with me. And you ignore me now. I don't know what I did wrong. Either say something or I'm gone. "

"I'm so tired of how naive you are with other men. I've told you so many times that they have bad intentions, and yet you always seem surprised when they make a move. Part of me thinks that you do know about your excessive flirting, but just don't care enough about me. It hurts. I'm so loyal, and you're so permiscuous. I miss the old, perfect us."


"I think you and your best female friend secretly want to be together. You always tell me that she's just a friend. But if thats true then why do others agree with me? "

"I don't love u that much anymore u aren't a good role model I am thinking about other girls u don't seem Christian I don't like how much you cuss I just am plain annoyed even though we have been dating for one and a half years good bye "

"Why are you so boring?"

"I just dont know what I'm feeling anymore"

"I'm in love with the person I thought you were not who you are"

"I think I love you but each week that goes by makes me more unsure. Im afraid that I rushed into telling you how i felt instead of letting my feeling settle so that I could be sure. Im so sorry. I really thought we could make this work."

"You shouldn't have mentioned what my ex did to me as reasoning after you made me upset. "

"I indeed love you, but this might not be working"

"I have turned to alcohol because of you. In "our" relationship I feel like im the one putting all of the effort into our relationship. I am the one always trying to organise all of our dates (I rearrange my schedule for you) however you end up canceling at the last minute"

"I really want things to work out cause I love him so much but it's like he doesn't even care. "

"After looking long and hard in the mirror I saw too many flaws to count so in my early 20's I decided that being a douche was not in the best interest of a relationship. So I changed, cried, fought, struggled to become this man who's only intentions now are that of a fulfilled relationship. Now being in my early 30's I come across a lady who would do more harm to me than anyone has. So she cheats... and my world falls apart. After analyzing everything I could and getting ahold of my tear ducts I decide to give it another try. It's weird... So many people after they cheat come back crying for forgiveness, claiming it wouldn't happen again. It seems to me those people don't like being the bad guy. Being a douche in my early 20's I remember hurting women so I decided to chalk it up as karma and give it another go. So a year or two pass. It just so happens I see an e-mail that she sent a co worker... I just couldn't understand, my thinking was if she didn't want to be here we didn't have to be together. So a simple flirty e-mail started the whole process. The first time I believe people make mistakes. They take a gamble. If it works ok, if caught you have to pay the price. What I didn't expect was how I deconstructed everything about her to a point were I look at her and see another person. I harbor no ill emotion towards this women, we don't fight and we laugh at stupid things. What I didn't understand was how my brain translated all that pain, all that information into a concise discussion with myself to not put any more value into the relationship. The thing was I was doing this unknowingly, every time she talked a rebuttal came out of my mouth. Every time she said I love you was met with a sigh. I was pushing away sub consciously! When I realized it, it was too late. I looked at her one day as we were holding hands doing some shopping and she turned to me and said that I make her so happy. I felt like crying right there. Simply put I was sad I did not feel the same, angry that it came to this, mad at myself for not believing in her. We don't fight, we rarely argue. Couples don't have to be at each other's throat to be in a bad relationship. Simply put, some are not meant to be."


"Whenever im with you you act differently, you dont seem like your heart is in the relationship anymore and im fed up with it"

"Girls and guys, PLEASE don't commit to a relationship if you are 100% sure, its what happens to me every time and it's a messy ending everytime "

"okay so all your sweet talk is great, but we are 2 very different people, we have different views on almost everything, we rarely see each other, but we live in the same town. we barely text/call. all I get is a snapchat every now and again. I'm so over it. you are 16 and working more hours a day than my parents ever have and then complain I dont make enough time to see you ?? thanks for some great times but I can't really deal with your jealousy, insecurities, constant complaining, paranoia anymore, and basically wanting the most serious relatinoship with me which I was not prepared for. you didnt even actually ask me properly to be your girlfriend you just said "lets make this offical yeh?" I wasnt even really wanting a relationship when you said that. I honestly wish I didnt agree now. even my paretns have told me you are not my type. I guess I just didnt see it. Im sorry, I hope I dont hurt you when I end this on the weekend, but I know its for the best "

"I feel like you live in your past. I feel like everyone who wronged you in the past is part of our relationship. I feel like I constantly have to prove I'm not a piece of garbage."

"I love you but I know you don't trust me. But I honestly wanted so bad to make you happy."

"It feels like you're Rome trying"

"I hope you will not project your insecurities onto your next significant other the way you projected them onto me. I hope you've realized that distrust and paranoia will only push other people away. I hope you've learned that being controlling and then acting like you're always misunderstood will not make people respect you. Nor does it result in a healthy relationship. I hope the next person won't suffer as I did."

"Can't you see that I'm sick of this? Chances are you're oblivious to how I feel Sitting on your throne, and I'm sure that I'm not alone, Not alone, not alone. Tell me please, Who the fuck did you want me to be? Was it something that I couldn't see? Never knew this would be so political. And please, I'm still wearing this miserable skin And it's starting to tear from within But it's obvious that doesn't bother you, so please I didn't think that you'd sell me out Now I know what you're all about. You might feel in control of things. But you're not holding all the strings. All the strings, all the strings. Tell me please, Who the fuck did you want me to be? Was it something that I couldn't see? Never knew this would be so political. And please, I'm still wearing this miserable skin And it's starting to tear from within But it's obvious that doesn't matter to you, So please I've swallowed all your answers I've swallowed all my pride You've used up all your chances Can't keep this all inside Tell me please, Who the fuck did you want me to be? Was it something that I couldn't see? Never knew this would be so political. And please, I'm still wearing this miserable skin And it's starting to tear from within But it's obvious that doesn't bother you So please don't keep telling me that it's ok I don't buy all the shit that you say And quite honestly I'm fucking sick of it so please if I cut off this nose from my face Then I wouldn't feel so out of place But it still wouldn't be quite enough for you, so please. Lyrics by Aaron Lewis How I feel about you"

"You said you wanted a companion. Someone to travel and create with, who would come along on journeys accross the world with you. You told me that you had plenty of money and nothing but time, that you simply wanted someone to share and enjoy the world with. We talked of spirituality and the magic of life and shared incredibly beautiful moments together dreaming of our ideal future. You told me I was extraordinary. It was exciting and intoxicating, and I fell so hard for you. Then I started finding out about your baggage. About your 6 kids with 4 different mothers, 2 of whom you were once married to. About how much you exaggerated about money. About how you're a workaholic, and how it's nearly impossible for us to get away for even a weekend because you're always taking on more work. Now, all we talk about is mundane things like your job, my schoolwork, and your children who you have strained relationships with. The only compliments you give me anymore are when we're in bed. I feel like I've gone from being your companion to the woman who does nothing but listen. You promised me the world and I thought you would deliver. Shame on me."

"How could you be so selfish? How can you add to my burdens? Life alone is better than life with you in it. You are ruining our relationship and I am falling out of love with you. I wish you would be there for me, I wish I could trust you, I wish you sought out happiness for yourself and for us. You turn the lights out inside of me. I don't need this. Are you going to change? Get better? Go back to who you were? Right now a future with you makes my stomach turn. I want a strong partner who has an unquashable passion for life and love. Who trusts me, respects me, protects me, provides for me. Can you ever really be that man?"

"we never should have gotten together, and maybe we shouldn't be."

"i know this is catching you off guard, but its been stressing me out once i realized that the unhappiness is with the relationship, ive been getting stressed and getting headaches thinking about ending the relationship because of the responce you might have. i value our friendship but not as much as you do"

"i thhink you would be happier with being friends with me. Right now i need friends and people who will there for me as friends"

"I feel like I'm paying for a mistake I made when we weren't even together... you always put me down."

"I don't want to be your "Daddy." I don't want to get broken up with several times a month knowing that it's just a little fight. I don't want this relationship and I don't need it."

"I feel like you don't try to be with me as hard as I try to be with you."

"Im tired of not feeling like a priority. "

"You make me miserable.You're a boy trapped in a man's body. I want you to be the person I know you can be but it's not for me to change you, you have to do that yourself. I just wish you would grow up in every respect - emotionally, logically, mentally. "

"Just because you are much older and more experienced than me doesn't mean you are always right, especially when it comes to dealing with emotional conflict. All your years of resolving conflict between others has not offered you much in the way of handling it yourself, as it seems as though your emotional maturity declines by at least 30 years whenever I bring up a problem. Act your age."

"I have given you everything a girlfriend could give emotionally but you don't feel the same way that I do about you. You are mostly devoid of emotions, never compliment me or tell me you even like me or that I look nice. I have a lot of love to give but it is wasted on you when you seem so disinterested. I want someone who is passionate about me and our lives and who is interested in a future with me, travelling, seeing the world and having fun TOGETHER. You need to explore what you want as you haven't had much experience with relationships and I have so I know what I want an you clearly do not. I am not some sort of experiment to see if it is what you want. I want someone who is s erious about me and supports me wholly. You are a lovely an kind person deep down but you can't display your emotions. Either you need someone as emotionally closed off as you or someone who doesn't even need to be told that she is loved or cared about. Or maybe I am just the wrong girl for you if you don't feel this way about me. I have really enjoyed your company and the fun things we have done but you don't love me an it's time you admitted it."

"I have never been in love..I have tried to manage with the relationship somehow since the last 5 years but only bcoz I care about you not because I love you...but I don't want to hurt you and that makes things very difficult for me..."

"You hurt me too much, I love you but I was also really hurt. I don't want you to push me to be someone that I am not, I want to not feel smothered or confined or anything. I want to be free. I still love you, so that's what makes this so painful. But I really feel like you're trying to get me to be something I am not. And I feel you've really put me through the ringer, and you havn't stopped, so I can't heal if you keep poking at my wounds. I love you, but more and more I am seeing that even if you get better, the way I feel, the way I was wounded, won't. I am sorry for this, but I can't change that. I love you. And I want you to be happy. You deserve someone who will love you with extraordinary amounts of passion, I just don't feel that anymore. I feel pain, and fear, and apprehension, and resentment. I also feel love, but the passion is replaced by all the other stuff. "

"I don't trust you at all when I look at you. I know you are hiding something... "

"I wish we could talk things out "

"On paper she is the perfect ideal girlfriend. Trustworthy, pretty, kind, smart. But I am not attracted to her and find that I do not look forward to seeing her and when I do I feel drained. I find you her too needy. I feel guilty because I can't tell her how I feel because she is too sensitive and wouldn't change anyway."

"I love you but it's hard to communicate with you. It's hard to trust you. I don't feel wanted sexually but I want you all the time. I'm not sure how long I can continue this way. I am lost. I feel alone. I wish things could work because you are awesome but there are certain aspects of our relationship that are extremely difficult and confusing. I hope it's not too late. "

"I don't know how to talk to you anymore and I feel like you have no interest in me other than sex."

"I dont want you to get hurt but its not like it was before and im not happy anymore"

"You should text me back quicker, u ignore me, and I'm pretty sure that you don't care anymore"

"I don't understand why you are so emotionally unstable. It is the only thing I can see wrong with you but it was instrumental in having a happy relationship. You don't like yourself and become so sensitive to hurt whenever the is the faintest threat of an insult or possibility that you could feel down. You often assume the worst without thinking it through and I don't know if I will be happy with you long term."

"I don't want to break up, but I feel like he has lost interest in me."

"You lie to me a lot. You always change your mind at the last minute. I am the only one suffered from everything at the end."

"I am sick of your rudeness"

"I love you, but don't want a relationship with you. i like you and want you around, just not as serious."

"U should have fought harder..I was sooooo good to u"

"I still really like you but I kinda wish we were just friends because ive started to realise my feelings for another girl who I'm close to and she seems more like the person id like to date but I don't want to break your heart by breaking up with you!"

"It's too much for me to continue being with someone so fickle. I don't deserve to have to cry myself to sleep while you get to go to bed without even thinking of it again. I need the stability of someone who will want me around everyday and won't leave me to wonder whether or not they'll love me on a given day. I waited for you through what no one else would have, and yet you treat our relationship like a burden. I don't think this is working anymore, and although it pains me to imagine my life without you, I'm letting you go. I just don't have the fight anymore. "

"You never put any effort into me. I have to plan all the dates and you never do anything romantic. I'm so tired of you and I just wish you could put some effort into this relationship. You blame everything on me and never let me say what I want. Always putting me down. And you know what. I'm done. "

"I love you and I've put a lot into this relationship, I just want you to show me that you feel the same and that you're willing to work at things rather than just shut down "

"I feel as though I love you, but sometimes I question your interests and where your heart really lies. I feel like I come second to most things in your life."

"I dont find any love in the relationship anymore."

"I wish things could/could've changed between us."

"I wish you would be more open minded and not constantly negative."

"I love you with all of my heart and you know I'd do just about anything for you. But im so sick and tired of always being last in your life. We have been together and lived together for 4 years and yes some things have changed for the better but none of those things Make up for how used and abused unloved not respected not cared for not protected and the negative list goes on. I do love you but am now feeling I've only stayed with you for this long because im not just afraid to start over again but i cant stomach the thought of not havig you in my life. If I've jumped around in this message to you i cant help but to be that way because being with you i have so much to say to you that you wouldn't even care to hear."

"I love you but I'm not sure we are compatible."

"Your parents get in the way of everything they don't want us too be together and you add fuel to the fire by telling them things I trusted you with. That just makes them dislike me even more. Anyways your so bi polar I don't even know what to expect when we go on dates or what mood you'll be in. I'm scared too ask for time apart when we do have it you open lines of communications with other guys and break all the promises we had. I no longer know what to do I'm taking you to dinner today and it's your birthday I think today is our last date"

"Whale, honestly, you say you'll always be there for me yet you freak out when finding something out about me you don't like. You judge me for being myself after saying I was "perfect". Honey, that was most likely your light saber talking if you know what I mean. I don't tell you things because you don't accept me for me. Your actions speak louder than your words and it's time to let this showdown go. ~~"

"I can't deny that somewhere down the road something changed. The passion was gone, the butterflies were gone, and so were the feelings for you. "

"You never put any effort into me. I have to plan all the dates and you never do anything romantic. I'm so tired of you and I just wish you could put some effort into this relationship. You blame everything on me and never let me say what I want. Always putting me down. And you know what. I'm done. "

"I love you and I've put a lot into this relationship, I just want you to show me that you feel the same and that you're willing to work at things rather than just shut down "

"I feel as though I love you, but sometimes I question your interests and where your heart really lies. I feel like I come second to most things in your life."

"I dont find any love in the relationship anymore."

"I wish things could/could've changed between us."

"I wish you would be more open minded and not constantly negative."

"You really don't listen to me. Don't tell me to shut up when I'm not the one doing 90% of the talking. "

"You always compare me to your exs. Point out the fact I dont have the best body out of all the people you know. You have done nothing but lie to me about meeting up with other people from dating websites then say you can get away from them because the website is part of your life. Well guess what so was I and all you did was ignore me, treat me like I was nothing but a moron who had nothing to offer you."

"I love you but I'm not ready to be with you right now. I'm trying to get my life together and I don't want to hurt you. I Know What Hurt Feels Like And I Would Never Want To Put Anyone In That Position. I Love You And We Been Through Our Ups And Downs For 3 Years Now. I'm Just Not Stable Enough For A REALTIONSHIP. I Like What We Have Now And I Want To Keep It That Way. I Hope This Doesn't Mess Up Anything We Have."

"I wish you were not so hypocritical and contradicting. You said I could talk to you about anything, but every time I try, I feel like you either belittle what I'm saying, don't listen or try to relate everything back to yourself. I feel like I have nothing more to give and it's never enough or the right way."

"I really do care about you. I don't know how to talk seriously to you. You are too clingy. I feel like I have to plan every aspect of my life around you. I am 21 and I should be focused on a career goal but instead I'm stuck having to plan everything around you. You need to find a way to do your own thing. I don't want everything in my life to be about you and the other way around. I know I seem distant sometimes but that is because I feel like you keep pushing forward and I have to back up and remind you that we're not married. It scares me that you focus everything around me. I don't like it. I've felt like this for a while but it is very hard to talk to you about it."

"I'm struggling with the the fact that my boyfriend is still really good friends with his Ex. I'm not usually the jealous type but I always get suspicious when they talk to each other. I want to confront him and tell him how it makes me feel but I am too scared. "

"Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes are uncertain. People are irrational."

"If you want to love me now, then you have to learn to love my past. Because the struggles I went through yesterday made me who I am today."

"You're a pain in my ass. I work my ass off while you sit around on your ass and can't even wash some towels so I can get clean when I come home and when I do, I have to do EVERYTHING. You slap me, You badly criticize me and are rude to me and when I try to stand up for myself you cry or get mad. You're also a brown noser."

"You just can't accept me when I'm down or when I'm not perfect."

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