Should I Break Up with my Boyfriend? Girlfriend?

Are you unsure of where your relationship is going? Do you question whether or not you should stay together or break up with your significant other?

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If you want an unbiased opinion please take our short, free break up quiz  to get a neutral answer to the question, "should I break up with my boyfriend or girlfriend?" Our love quiz is based on scientific, social and psychological sources.

We have spent lots of time researching the characteristics of a loving, healthy relationship. Love may be enough to bring two people together but is it enough to maintain a healthy relationship and good foundation for a long lasting marriage?

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Not only have we studied the characteristics of a good relationship but we have also researched what are the things that may lead a boyfriend or girlfriend to break up with their partner.

This relationship test  will help you better understand how healthy things are between you and your boyfriend or girlfriend. You may also take this short break up quiz to better recognize if you should stay married or get divorced for those who are already married.

For more accurate results, consider taking our more comprehensive break up test  which analyzes more elements of your compatibility with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

Of course our break up quiz is not conclusive evidence of whether or not the answer to "should I break up with my boyfriend or girlfriend?" is "yes" or "no." We are merely giving you an additional free tool and neutral opinion on what is the current condition of your relationship.

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Unlike many other break up quizzes or healthy relationship tests, we weigh each aspect of your relationship differently based on scientific and sociologic research. As with most things in life, some issues affect relationships more than others. Therefore each question of our break up quiz has a higher or lower value of importance.

Recent Relationship/Break Up Confessions from our Visitors

"I do think I love you but there are times I really really question it. We're too different sometimes and it's clear. I don't like being with you anymore. "

"I'm saddened about the thought of there not being an US anymore. I feel as though this could of been completely avoided had you just been the person you really are underneath this mad man who has become of you. You used to be every girl's dream guy and I felt lucky to have you. But now it makes me so sad that every girl knows she could have you, and now the only girl who every really loved you doesn't want you. It makes me so mad that you messed us up and had me wasting my life chasing a dream that soon became my worst nightmare. I wish you well, and I pray that the man who once was can someday come back. -SKS"

"Hey, listen, I love you, I really do. I want you to be happy, and I want you to be successful in life, but I'm not happy. I'm not okay. We've been together for a few months now, and the first few were amazing, but this last two or so months have just been filled with doubt and dread, and honestly, I can't take it anymore. You're a beautiful girl, and I would never want to hurt you, but I have to do this, I have to be happy again, and this just isn't working. I'm so, so sorry."

"I'm not your night in shining armor. I can't save you from yourself. There is someone out there who can, I know it, but I also know that he is not me. I wish you the best of luck. P.S When he eventually comes along, please refrain from telling him, in painfully precise detail, all of your sexual ventures ESPECIALLY what you did with your mouth..... it makes kissing you a nauseating thing."

"I was head over heals for you in the beginning, but when you finally got me to be yours, you didn't even seem to even like me even though you'd say you loved me, you would just text other people rather than me, with not a single hi or morning or anything. I thought we could end up being great together, but I guess not "

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